the life of a renaissance pastor
Just in case you missed it, catch up on Parts 1, 2, 3, & 4 first.
This is a little late because I was out of town, got back, played catch up on a lot of stuff and now am back in the swing of things. Anyway, saw this video over on Victor’s blog & thought I’d share:
Here’s my thoughts for what they’re worth.
I believe it’s lack of real relationships, and lack of accountability.
MG says that he was raised in a ‘Christian’ home, in the church and that the church so looked down on the sin of pornography that he was driven to create this fassaud to take the focus off. I believe this is a story that many of us could tell or hear over and over - if we were real. Christians are the worst at pointing fingers, at creating unattainable expectations, and at covering things up rather than dealing with them. When will we wake up? When will love conqure fear? Now I’m not making any excuses for this man, but imagine the situation he found himself in. In too deep and no way out.
Next is the lack of accountability. This one really gets me going. I don’t know the situation in his church or personal life, but because of this very public scandal I do know that somewhere, accountability in his life & church broke down. Where were the people who had complete access to his life? How could he possibly get away with lying about having terminal cancer for 2 years… 2 years! Why didn’t an oversight team, accountability partner, wife, father, mother, demand to see doctors results? demand to go with him to an appointment, at least one.
This again wreaks of the idea that just because he was a ‘pastor’, he was completely trustworthy, above reproach. Just because he wrote an amazing song, he had to be telling the truth. There’s got to be a place where the ‘buck stops’ and it can’t be with a single leader. That’s how people end up drinking kool aid, and trying to catch a comet.
I’m not saying we distrust everyone. What I am saying is that we setup, to the best of our ability, a system that helps people be ABLE to be honest. And get them help BEFORE stuff like this happens. And we better start doing it quick, because I only see more and more of these types of situations on the horizon for church leaders in our high intestity, growth driven, personality driven modern church.
I’m really hoping that Anne Jackson’s book Mad Church Disease will be taking an honest look at some of these types of issues. Can’t wait to read it.
And for Michael. Let’s praise God that he will finally be free.
My name is Alex McLean and I am currently the executive pastor at LifeChurch in the Temecula Valley of Southern California. I have been a youth pastor and worship leader, as well as a media / communications pastor so I am into all kinds of things creative.
At the core, I am just a guy who is trying to live in community, and live life - not let it happen. I try and stay real and teachable, humble if I can say that. That is really one of the reasons I blog, is to share my experiences in life and learn from others.
God has blessed me with more than I deserve and I am so thankful for that. A beautiful wife and two incredible children. More friends and family than you can shake a stick at and just an amazing life that I am allowed to enjoy and or struggle with every day.
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